I am assuming this is stemmed from more stupidity that you have had to deal with, sorry if I added to it. Yeah it is really stupid that it seems that all or most men have been brainwashed into these foolish ideas of how things work. I mean yes I am not without this, and hell for most of my life I fit right into the horrible stereotype of blaming all my hardships as a white male on every other group out there. Aurgh it is hard to look back on how stupid I was, and somewhat still am on a lot of things like this rape, but thankfully not as bad as I once was. I still shutter thinking back to most of my past but the last two years when I finally got a clue as to how the world really works...