You have exactly encapsulated why I am becoming increasingly disenchanted with nerd culture as a whole. Racefail was a factor, but mostly it's being entirely surrounded by people who are mostly straight (or closeted heteronormative) white guys who are all in favor of "privileged asshole behaviors"
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Date: 2009-06-06 03:12 am (UTC)THIS. YES YES YES.
God, sometimes I hate my so-called community.